♥Har bir fursat- bu yangi imkoniyat

Har bir oliygohda studentlar yozgi amaliyotga yuboriladi. Qayerga yuborilishi albatta qaysi yo’nalishda o’qilayotganiga hamda studentning  qanday joy tanlashiga bog’liq. Amaliyot o’tshdan asosiy maqsadi olingan bilimlarni amalda qo’llashgina emas, balki kelajakda qaysi tipdagi ish yoqishini o’zi uchun bilib olish, davlat ishi qanaqaligini xis qilish, yoki boshqa korxona, tashkilot, muassasalarida ishlash qandayligini bilishdir. Ko’plar bunday amaliyotlarga jiddiy qaramay, shtampiyam uyda, rahbarlari ham uyda bo’lgan tashkilotga yo’nalish qilib olishadi. Bir tarafdan amaliyotni tanish bilishnikiga gaplashib o’tash  to’g’ridir, bu haqda keyinroq to’xtalaman. Ammo, amaliyotni to’laqonli ravishda o’tashning ijobiy taraflari mening tajribamga ko’ra quyidagilaar: Read the rest of this entry »

Har bir sessiya bu yangi sinov. Chunki,  har semestr yangi o’qituvchi, ularning har birlarining qiynash usullari esa har xil. Oldingi yili Dem.Jam dan o’tgan domladan ko’ra qo’rqinchilirog’i uchramasa kerak degandim, xato o’ylabman. Bu yilgi 2 ta spec  fanim juda qiynadi. Bu endi ikkitasi, keyingi yildan shunaqasidan 5-6 tasi o’tiladi…

 Bir amallab bugun oxirgi fanim Ma’muriy huquqdan qutuldim. Juda charchadim, chunki oxirgi 3 xaftada o’ziyam faqat o’qidim. Hozir tezroq yumshoq kravatimga borib, yotgim kelyapti.. Ertaga balki sessiyadan o’zimga olgan darslarimni yaxshilab yozaman,   balki yozmayman, shuning uchun hozir eng asosiylarni yozib qo’yaman. (keyingi sessiya o’zim uchun as qotadi)

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O’z tajribamdan bugun shu xulosaga keldim-ki, insonlarning eng katta kamchiligi – aybni doimo boshqalardan qidirish. Mening o’zim ham shunaqaman. Hech kim ming yomon ish qilsa ham, o’zini aybdor deb hisoblamas ekan. Karnegini kitobida ham, AQSHning eng xavfli, jamiyatning #1 dsuhmani Chikagolik gangsterAl-Kapone, sudda o’zini chin ko’ngildan oqlagan, samimiyat ila, odamlar uni shunga majbur qilganini aytgan. Har bir shaxs o’zining yomon harakatlariga baribir sabab toparkan. Shuning uchun ham boshqa odamning ayblarini ko’rsatish foydasiz.

Bugundan boshlab men har qanday muammoga o’zimdan sabab qidirib, boshqalarni ayblamaslikka harakat qilaman. Chunki, tandidim ming obyektiv bo’lsa ham, u hech qachon meni tushunmaydi. Bugungi darsim shundan iborat edi.=)

Молчи, скрывайся и таи
И чувства и мечты свои -
Пускай в душевной глубине
Встают и заходят оне
Безмолвно, как звезды в ночи, -
Любуйся ими – и молчи!

Как сердцу высказать себя?
Другому как понять тебя?
Поймет ли он, чем ты живешь?
Мысль изреченная есть ложь.
Взрывая, возмутишь ключи, -
Питайся ими – и молчи!

Лишь жить в себе самом умей -
Есть целый мир в душе твоей
Таинственно-волшебных дум;
Их оглушит наружный шум,
Дневные разгонят лучи, -
Внимай их пению и молчи!..

(“Silentium!” – молчание Федор Тютчев)

Inson nimaiki amalga oshirishni xohlasa, usha narsaga bemalol erishishi mumkin ekan. Buni o’zimning tajribam asosida aytyapman. Umuman shans yo’q edi, ammo men ilojsiz maqsadimni amalga oshirdim.

1. Eng asosiysi bu aniq maqsad qo’yish kerak. Oxiri yaxshi bo’lsa mayli, a’lo bo’lsa undanam yaxshi deyish kerak emas. Oldinga eng maksimal natijani aniq va konkret ravishda belgilab olish lozim.

2. Shubxalardan xalos bo’lish. Maqsadga erishish uchun qator to’siqlar mavjud bo’lishi mumkin va xohlayotgan ishning amalga oshishini imkonsiz deb tuyultirishi mumkin.

Ammo, usha shubxalarni unutib, oxirgi natijaga (ijobiy natijaga) hamma e’tiborni qaratish kerak.

3. Harakatda barakat. Omadni siri oxir oqibat bilimga, mehnatga taqalar ekan. Oxiri hammasi zo’r bo’lishiga ishonish bilan birga, qo’lidan kelgancha harakat qilish, usha maqsad amalga oshirilishi uchun shart-sharoit yaratish kerak. Hech qanday priz bekor berilmaydi, ammo hech qanday mehnat ham rohatsiz bo’lmaydi=)

Bo’ldi shekilli=) Men filosof yoki psiholog emasman, faqatgina o’zimning shu 2 xafta ichida tajribam bilan isbotlangan faktlarni aytyapman. Shunga iqror bo’ldimki, inson hayotini faqat tekis omadlardan tashkil qilishi mumkin. Ko’plar etadi, “hayotda hammasi ham xohlaganingcha bo’lavermaydi” deb. Agar inson shunaqa deb o’ylasa, haqiqat ham shunga taqalib qoladi. Agar inson aksini o’ylasa, u butun hayotinining har bir kunini baxtli o’tkazishi mumkin. Albatta kichkina to’siqlar bo’ladi, ammo ularga e’tibor qilish kerak emas xolos.

P.S Bu maqola juda ham charchagan va uyqisi kelgan qiz tomonidan yozildi. Shuning uchun yozilganlarga ishonish mumkin, olib qochar gaplar emas. Chunki, inson ikki paytda: ichganda yoki uxlab qoli devotganida rost gapiradi^^

Bugun meni Universitet kutubxonasidan oxiri xaydab yuborishdi. Kursdoshim bilan 4 soat bibliotekada 7 ta seminarni yozdik. O’zi kutubxonaga soat 4 larga kirgandik, shu burnimizni Demokratik Jamiyat Nazariyasi kitobiga qo’ydikde, 8 da burnimizni kitobdan oldik=))

Universitetimizda bir domla bor. Usha domla hamma studentlar orasida LEGENDA. Mana 1 xafta bo’ldi-ki, hammani og’zida Uchqun aka. Kimni ko’rmasam “Uchqunakaga topshirdizmi, savol javob qildilami” deb so’rashadi. Hozircha 70 ta studentdan bitta odamgina 5 olganini eshitdim. Shuniyam zo’o'o’rg’a, qiynab qo’yib beribdilar. U bolani ismi Umid, mana 2 semestrdan beri fakultet reytingida 1 o’rinni egallab keladigan bola Aytishlaricha Umiddan shunaqangi ko’p savol so’rabdilarki, yalintirib oxiri86 (5) qo’yib beribdilar.

Men bu domlaga ertaga topshiraman. Bilmadim, negadir ularni juda mehribon, insoniy va tushunadigan odam deb o’ylayman. Studentlar ular haqida ming xil narsa gapirishadi: qiynab, studentlar ustidan kuladilar deyishadi. Man bunga ishonmayman.

Xudo xohlasa, Uchqun aka ertaga mani judayam hursand qiladilar=)))))))

Hammasi OK buladi!

The value of this day is important to measure for it will never come again, I don’t want regret it’s passing. What I do today is up to me and no else. I can use it for advantages or squander it away. The choice is mine. I will try to make my day one of:

Success rather than failure;

Satisfaction rather than frustration;

Joy rather than pain;

Laughter rather than tears;

Contentment rather than worry;

Love rather than hate.

P.S Those words were hang near the bed of Michelle (my host sister). As we slept in one room, in the mornings those phrases served as a motivation for me. They are very powerful, indeed. Try to read it attentively, and you’ll see how much meaning is hidden in them.

If you’d, like print it out and put it in the wall!=)

I am sure, some of people who are reading would say “Another psychological article”, but anyway you will read it. All people have one dream, to be happy in life. But for all of them the sources of happiness are different things!

People claim that happiness is very short term feeling, and can be felt when something really Fantastic happens!( Entrance to the Univer, winning 1000000000$, kiss with loved one etc^^)

I totally disagree with this. There is such a feeling like happiness which can be felt everyday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I personally today found out THAT SECRET!

Just to do the activity that you like and enjoy – all the time! It might sound tooo simple, but all brilliant ideas are always SIMPLE!

Ok, there is question. If I like drinking alcohol, watching TV, hanging out with friends, that’s what I like. So I should do it all the time?

Actually, I am not talking about this. None can be happy doing entertainment all the time. Shortly, I mean the profession, work, or extracurricular activities you choose!

PERSONAL EXCPERIENCEGA KELSAK!

Man hozir ishga kirdim, bu omadmikan, yoki xudodan in’om. Bu ish na charchatmayapti, aksincha ungacha o’qishdan bo’lgan charchoqlarim chiqib ketadi. Nega bunaqa bo’votti desam, bu ish man uchun qiziqarliligi hamda atrofimdagi odamlarning ochiqligi eng muximi qilayotgan ishimning juda foydaliligidir.

I like to give people some knowledge, I love people and want to make a change in this world. Eventually, that job mentioned above is IDEAL for me!

SO, first of all person should find out what is interesting for him, and not being afraid to try it !!!

When person does something useful and something that is hiS vocation oh.. That’s a GREAT HAPPINESS!

And, what about the times when you feel down without any reason, or bad events. Oh, those are so passable, if you don’t draw your attention on it and just let it it go, it will pass anyhow, even it seems like that there is no the end of it! You know every time when you are down, you feel like that! But then it is always forgotten!

THE MOST IMPORTANT your job wil be the thing that will keep your attention on such times. Like a back-up! Your favorite job will be your PROTECTING SHIELD!=)